Dear Charmaine
I am also a mum of twins and have learnt and studied a great deal on the subject.
I would support Jan’s recommendations for a dynamic working approach. There is too much detail to go into here!
You are most welcome to email me and we can arrange to discuss it in more depth – it’s a fascinating topic and it sounds like you have much rich material to work with, with sensitivity being the operative word.
Arabella Bingham
Arabella.bingham@btinternet.com